My husband Xu Ming and I met at a friend’s birthday party. In the days that followed, our story gradually deepened, from the reserve of first love to the passion of cohabitation. After living together for half a year, I married him naturally. At first, our marriage was happy, but with the birth of our daughter and my husband’s promotion, our sweet world of two people was suddenly messed up, and I resigned to take care of my daughter at home. Especially after my husband’s promotion, I became a resentful woman who was burdened by the family.

One day, Xu Ming came home from get off work and suddenly said to me excitedly: “My colleague lent me a few swimsuit CDs of Western models. Let’s experience them, how about it?” In fact, I happened to have the desire to have sex, so I watched it with him with great interest. The hot picture on the screen made me salivate, and I couldn’t help but caressing Xu Ming and me. At that moment, we both had a surge of desire… But at this moment, my daughter coughed lightly. I loved my daughter dearly and was worried that she would be cold, so I ran to her crib and tucked her in. After I was busy in the house, I was a little tired when I lay down next to Xu Ming, but Xu Ming was still “sexually interested”. At this time, my “sexual interest” had gone to the sky, so I didn’t care about his affection, but fell asleep. Late at night, I was suddenly awakened by my husband’s constant trembling. It turned out that he was secretly masturbating! I was extremely angry and felt that this was a great insult to me.
The next morning, as soon as he woke up, I asked him why he masturbated. When he heard this, his expression was very unnatural, and he said angrily: “It’s because having sex with you is not romantic!” His words were like a blow to the head, which made me feel unbearable pain. I was not to be outdone and got angry at him, so I fought back and quarreled with him endlessly.
After that, he never took the initiative to ask for sex again, and I never expressed my love to him because I was upset about his masturbation. Until one day in June last year, Xu Ming suddenly told me that the company sent him to contact business, which would take four days. But on the third afternoon after he “left”, my daughter suddenly had diarrhea. When I took my daughter to the hospital for examination, I saw my husband in front of the cafe near the hospital. He was hugging a beautiful girl, and they were very intimate. I wanted to rush over to argue with him, but thinking of the last quarrel with him because of masturbation, I had to control my impetuous emotions and returned home calmly. I wanted to erase this matter from my heart for the happiness of my family, but a week later, Xu Ming asked me for a divorce. I couldn’t help but burst into tears. Like many frustrated women, I felt heartbroken about the collapse of my family. But I thought about it and thought that I might also be responsible for the development of this matter to this point, so I didn’t make a fuss and agreed to divorce Xu Ming. Since we both contributed to the house, we still lived under the same roof after the divorce, so as to prevent the child from being hurt too early. During this period, he took good care of us, mother and daughter, and I stopped asking him about his romantic affairs. We got along very harmoniously like good friends. With the help of a close friend, I gradually realized that our divorce was actually caused by the disharmony of our sexual life. Although we were divorced, I still loved Xu Ming deeply and wanted to remarry him, but I didn’t know whether Xu Ming still loved me. The close friend supported my decision and began to help me make plans. One day at noon, I deliberately brought an ordinary boyfriend home and asked him to cooperate with me to pretend to be in love in front of Xu Ming, saying some sweet words and doing some intimate little actions. Xu Ming really responded during the “acting”. He said sadly and embarrassedly: “Sorry, I won’t bother you anymore.” Although he opened the door and went out, I could still detect the jealousy in his eyes. Therefore, I planned to take the initiative and use sex “show” to save our dormant love.
That day, I specially sent my daughter to my parents’ home, and then dressed up carefully, ready to face Xu Ming with a happy attitude. Then, I called Xu Ming and told him that I would wait for him at Shangdao Bar. Xu Ming arrived as promised, and his eyes became particularly gentle when he saw my bright image design. I took his arm and sang love songs with him and had dinner together. In his drunken eyes, Xu Ming also kissed the back of my hand, which was a good omen.
After coming out of the bar, we snuggled up to each other and went home. In the private space of the bedroom, when I walked slowly towards Xu Ming who was drunk on the bed, his eyes were full of unstoppable passion. Then, all the wars we had turned into excitement that penetrated the bone marrow. Xu Ming kissed me unscrupulously and said to me passionately: “Wife, we love each other so much, why do we have to break up?” I clearly read his excitement and satisfaction from his eyes. When everything returned to calm, he said to me affectionately: “Let’s remarry!”

Now our life is happy and harmonious. No matter how stressful the work is or how many trivial matters there are, we never forget to “show” sex every month. Because we deeply understand that enjoying sex in an intoxicating atmosphere can keep both parties alive and make the marriage colorful and long-lasting.